My mother is the nucleus of our family. I cannot remember a time in my life where my mother put herself first. Her family has always been her love and life. If I can be half the person my mother is, I will consider my life a success.
My mother taught me that I always had to be a lady. She did not tolerate even modestly foul language. Once we were going home from school we were only half a block from the house (on Circle Drive) and I softly said the "c _ _ p" word. See, I can't even type it today. My mother pulled the car off the road and I received a scolding I still remember to this day. Yes mam and No mam were always required. Even to Miss Shirley, who was like family to us. Speaking of Miss Shirley, I still say "Miss" in front of her name. My mother would never tolerate me calling someone older than me by their first name.
She taught me that you always must work hard, no matter what the work is. As a little girl my job on Saturday mornings was polishing the furniture, sweeping, and helping to clean the house. I don't know why but it always seemed like my sister never has as much to do as I did. And my brother, well, let's just say, he had Nora. But, my mother was always fair so I was not concerned. Manners were one of the most important traits I have learned from my mother. If I received a gift, a thank you card was mailed the very next day. I have passed this trait to my children (I hope!). My mother is not extravagant and I have learned to appreciate the meaning of taking care of your money.
My mother was always doing for others. From giving baby or wedding showers for everyone she knew to teaching the Vietnamese the English language. She cared for tomama until the day tomama died.
This Mother's Day I want to wish my Mother a wonderful day.
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